I hope you dance…

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I’m sure you’ve heard the term “crowd sourcing” coined by Jeff Howe in a June 2006 Wired magazine article, as I am sure you are familiar with the concept of “tribes” put forth by Seth Godin.  The question is, if there is a “tribe” or a “crowd” with a passion that matches yours, what are you doing to find them and help them find each other?

I firmly believe that the key to drawing a crowd is to be screamingly unique and completely unafraid to shout about your passion from any and all platforms.  …and if you can’t find a platform, make your own.

The impetus of this post came from a tweet by @lotay (follow this guy if you are on twitter, he is amazing).  He got me thinking about what really draws a crowd.  Take a look at the video @lotay linked to (you might want to bump your volume down a little):

A beautiful, sunny afternoon, some music, and a guy who is not afraid to be in the moment and do what he does with complete abandon.  You can see it happening, can’t you?  Do you feel yourself being drawn in?  Aren’t you in some way wishing you were there?

The person in the video is not a celebrity, and evidently not a professional dancer.  But he does what he does with such passion that it can’t help but draw others in.  Watch how the “tribe” grows, one or two at first, sharing the joy of the moment.  But suddenly it grabs the crowd, and grows exponentially.  That is the power of a passionate performance, and a core group of like minded individuals.  This is a living example of how your passion can become much bigger than just you and take on a life of its own. It happens when you are willing to throw caution aside, stop worrying about what people will think, and just dance.

We live in a time when the individual voice can become a world-wide phenomenon in a matter of hours.  The ease of communicating a message out to a world audience is incredible.  You can speak to the world, right now, and from the comfort of your own home.  If there is something you are passionate about, something you want to share, you have a capability to do so at a level, and with tools that did not exist one or two generations ago.  Imagine if the U.S. civil rights movement of the 60′s had a web presence.

You can blog.  You can tweet.  You can Facebook.  You can do this, and you can do it now.  Your tribe will grow, and as it does, it will drive what you do to keep it growing and enable it to fulfill the passion that drew the tribe together in the first place (we’ll talk about giving your tribe a voice in a future post).

Don’t wait for someone else to do it for you.  Stop looking for a tribe to join, and start looking for a tribe to lead.  Use the tools available to you to tell people about what you believe in and let the dancing begin…

Related Links:

Seth Godin – The Tribes We Lead – on the TED website (this site is a sinkhole of time for me – amazing information)
Jeff Howe – Crowd Sourcing – Jeff talks about the basics of Crowd Sourcing (as it relates to business, but you’ll see the connection)
Mashable.com article – on places to host a (free) blog
Twitter.com – and if you are already on twitter, here’s  my twitter page
FaceBook.com – and you can send me a friend request at my FaceBook page

Do you have a (cost free) place that can help people find and build their tribe? – Post a link in the comments

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    I have read a soft copy of it – I need to go buy a hard copy… That's one I definitely want on my nightstand.

    I truly hope I can find the right tribe to help lead over at KindnessUnderground.com. We really need to put our heads together about some of the ideas I have for the site.


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    David – aka @threedot

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    Thanks John – We all do crave to belong, and to me this offers a payback for the tribe leader that may be overlooked. As a leader of a tribe, you get the additional satisfaction of knowing you helped meet this need for some great people.


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    Hey Threedot, have you read Tribes? I just came across it on my bookshelf again today and I'm going to read it again. It's what we do at Under30CEO–build a tribe! Thanks for being part of it


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      I have read a soft copy of it – I need to go buy a hard copy… That's one I definitely want on my nightstand.

      I truly hope I can find the right tribe to help lead over at KindnessUnderground.com. We really need to put our heads together about some of the ideas I have for the site.


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    David, this is a solid post! I’m glad I read it, and I especially like the helpful links you posted at the bottom.

    The video really demonstrates the power of building a community, which is something I am becoming more and more passionate about.

    I think one of the keys to happiness in life is relationships, and with the ease of connecting with others as you discussed in this article, there are so many opportunities to build quality, lasting relationships.

    Be genuine, help others, and CARE.

    Humans inherently crave belonging…communities offer brand identity that satisfies this craving. What community are you most passionate about?


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      Thanks John – We all do crave to belong, and to me this offers a payback for the tribe leader that may be overlooked. As a leader of a tribe, you get the additional satisfaction of knowing you helped meet this need for some great people.


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    Scott

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    As some can atest to I don’t dance. It’s highly possible that I don’t dance because I don’t lead. Fears and failure or fears of failure or both. Fears of how I’m perceived. If I’m gonna dance I want to have a quality dance, if you know what I mean.

    This guy probably danced much better than I ever could and I applaud him for having the I’m-gonna-have-fun-and-I-don’t-care-what-y’all-think attitude. Applause and maybe a tad bit of jealousy for him being able to carry that attitude. He did look as though he was having a blast.

    I don’t lead because of Fear. Same fears as dancing I would think. Not to mention the pressure that I think I would feel leading.

    Don’t get me wrong, I would love (or really like) to be able to lead. I just don’t think I would be a “quality” leader, if that makes sense.

    This was an awesome post. And I did get the “man I wish I was there” feeling from watching the video. In fact, after reading the post I did get that, ok i’m gonna do it feeling. But the fear quickly extinguished it.

    Keep up the great work, David.

    Because of HIM
    SC


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      I think the best leaders don’t believe they would be a “quality” leader, as you put it. I always think of Moses when someone says something like this. There is a leader in each one of us, and it looks different for each person. Some will lead many, some will lead few, but we all lead. Someone is watching you and following your example – co-workers, kids, friends… someone, which means you are already leading.

      Too often we talk ourselves out of doing something before we’ve even taken the time to talk to God about it. When we do this, we make God small. He’s huge and we can do all things through His strength, and very little, if anything, in our own.


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      You and I suffer from the same malady – we lack confidence in our God given talents. Others see strength in us that we do not. Maybe we should partner and pray for each other on that? You are already a leader Scott, already strong (through Him if not in yourself) – we both need to step out in faith a little more maybe. For me, this blog is a big start :)


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        Karen, I see what you mean. Makes total sense. I try to keep that thought in my head that someone out there that I’m not aware of is definitely watching me. Yep, it’s scary.

        David, I agree. I do lack confidence even though I know that “things” will be ok.


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    Great video. Not the first with this concept, but another great example of how one person can start something.

    One thing that struck me was that for a while, he was the only one. Then for a while, there were only two. Not until the third arrived did more seem willing to participate. I think it’s a lesson in perseverance… don’t give up if you believe what you are doing is good and right… and you are being led by God.

    Our motives for starting a tribe or any kind of movement need to be right. If we want to start something so we can be noticed or get some sort of recognition, it likely will fail or we will feel unfulfilled in the process.

    As I learn the art of my own dance, I way too often am looking around to see who is watching or participating. My fears and insecurities tell me that those watching are making fun of or judging me and that for those participating I have to perform perfectly or they will stop following.

    I wonder how many of those following have their own dance to dance but have decided someone else’s dance is easier.

    I can’t think of any links at this time, but if I do, I’ll come back. Great stuff to think about.


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      http://BlackCardCircleFoundation.org
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      Lotay

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      Karen,

      Good point about perseverance, and I totally agree with your assessment re: motives needing to be right.

      - Lotay


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      http://www.ProfessionalEncourager.com
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      David

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      Thanks Karen – perseverance is key to gathering your tribe, and underlying motives are critical not only to gathering, but to maintaining the tribe.

      One of the things that struck me about this video is that I don’t think the guy (wish I knew his name)was looking to gather anyone – he is just in the moment and enjoying his passion for the music. …but the tribe came, drawn not by a marketing campaign, not by a social media blitz, but just by the passion and joy they saw in the dancer. I think there is a lesson there for all of us…


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    James Brink

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    You are great…Keep on keepin’ on man


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      http://www.ProfessionalEncourager.com
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      David

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      Thanks James – I appreciate the support!


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    http://BlackCardCircleFoundation.org
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    Lotay

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    This video rocks.

    Leadership starts with courage and withstanding mockery in the beginning… then a few brave souls join in… then a few more… and then even more…

    Until everyone is dancing…

    One of my favorite lines from the video is the woman saying, “How did he do that?!”

    Answer: A whole lot of courage… ;)


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      http://www.ProfessionalEncourager.com
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      David

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      Well said Lotay, and thanks for tweeting this in the first place. As you can see, it really got me thinking.


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    http://www.freedomandfashion.com
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    bonnie

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    I love this video. It makes me smile. Being ridiculously undignified sparks a desire to follow suit.

    I hope u can take a look at what freedom and fashion is about. It is but small, but passionate in nature.

    And people are always drawn to passion. :-)


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      David

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      What a great site and a great concept – Here’s hoping you gather a huge tribe of your own. Hmmmmm, maybe I’ll pick up a new pair of pj’s for the wife :)

Dansette